the thing that has rocked me MOST, hands down, about being in a relationship with someone from the UK is. Well, okay, so. For context and visual reference to make sure we’re all on the same page here. Photo of a tablespoon (top) and teaspoon (bottom).
In my family we have always eaten Spoon Foods with a teaspoon. To me this is the normal size of spoon to eat with. I’ve never been to someone’s house and been given a tablespoon. I feel like this is the size of spoon they give you in a restaurant, usually, unless they’ve got soup spoons? Tablespoons are for serving, teaspoons are for eating.
The first time I gave Bow teaspoon to eat with, he was like: “Why are we using the little spoons? What is going on here? Is it because you have a tiny mouth that can’t fit a regular spoon?” And I was like, okay, I DO have a tiny mouth that doesn’t easily accommodate a tablespoon, but this is a NORMAL spoon! This is the REGULAR SPOON SIZE. My tiny mouth has NOTHING to do with this.
But Bow’s parents also think this is so weird of me. I gave them teaspoons out of habit while we were eating cobbler today and they laughed so hard. They were like “it does feel a bit like eating with children’s cutlery”. They are SO bewildered by my, to me perfectly ordinary, spoon habits.
I don’t know if this is a US-UK thing or if my family has just been weird my whole life and nobody thought to mention it??
grew up in Minnesota and:
we used the big spoons for Soup and the smaller spoons for all other spoon purposes
was taught from childhood that the small spoons are Teaspoons and the big ones are Tablespoons. Assumed this was common knowledge until adulthood.
this assumption was shattered upon realizing that my long-term partner had NEVER seen them called this; to them, Teaspoon and Tablespoon referred solely to measuring-spoons designed specially for measuring
absolutely blew their mind when I showed them that a measuring teaspoon and a silverware-teaspoon hold the same amount of volume