actually my nightmare IS late marriage because I got marriage outta the way early in my life and in the process I figured out that I am much better suited to a loosely affiliated, steadily rotating group of polyamorous housemates who each have their own room… and so, if I somehow got forced into a fucking MARRIAGE late in life when I am trying to fucking enjoy what time i have left? that would be BAD. (but still not my BIGGEST nightmare, that’s probably runaway climate change but it’d still get worse with shitty monogamy thrown in)