said it before and I’ll say it again.

If you’re going around saying “everyone who wastes time on infighting is a Fed trying to destroy our community” I think it’s important to ask yourself what counts as “infighting” to you.

- If two people within the community disagree on something they both consider important, is that necessarily infighting?

- In the cases where it is… whose responsibility is it to back down and/or compromise, and why? What is an acceptable compromise? Who has to agree that it’s acceptable?

- How do you define who “started” it? Is it always the first person who raised a concern? Or the first person to fight back against that statement of a concern? Does it depend how valid you think the concern is?

- What do you gain by classifying anyone involved in these fights as “not a real member of the community”? Does this protect you against any accusations of infighting? Does it mean that fighting those people no longer counts as fighting within the community?

And so on.