Question.

If

- someone with a bio saying “NSFW BLOGS DO NOT INTERACT”

- reblogs a post from me (a blog that’s often NSFW)

- specifically asking for more details on a subject that I’m not sure I can discuss without getting too NSFW for their tastes…

- What should I do

- assuming my goal is to be kind and polite and not violate any boundaries, not even ones I don’t understand


Options I can think of:

1. Ignore them and pretend they don’t exist

2. Answer but try my best to stay out of the too-horny zone, but without any knowledge of what this person’s boundaries are for too-horny

3. Tell this person why I am not sure how to answer them (publicly, putting their mistake on blast and putting them at risk of bullying)

4. Tell this person why I am not sure how to answer them (privately, a DM without consent from a blog on their DNI list)

5. Vaguepost a poll of questions about what to do in this situation

6. Other (specify)

7. There is no good option, literally anything I can do will be mean to this person



what should I do

ignore

answer, without knowledge of boundaries

put them on blast

DM without consent

vaguepost poll

other

no good answer

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