worst thing about liking an m/f ship is other people always bring gender roles into it and it’s like okay atp you’re shipping the platonic ideal of A Girl and A Boy. that is not how they are. get your gender roles out of my awesome bisexual ship.
finally the word “platonic” used for something Plato actually talked about
(admittedly confusing if your first association with the term “platonic” is non-sexual non-romantic affection)