narutwitter:

A lot of people still think this

Just look at how much shit anyone gets for being attracted or unattracted in ways that are considered shallow or prejudiced or whatever

Like, even if you do realize that the way you feel attraction is fucked up and influenced by a society full of racism, sexism, ableism, bodyshaming of all kinds etc… that doesn’t automatically erase the feelings of attraction/unattraction that you have. If you want to change those at all you gotta work on it, and it’ll take time, if it’s even possible

And just about the worst thing you could do to anyone, in the meantime, is “go date someone you’re not attracted to because not being attracted to them makes you a bad person and you have to fix that about yourself”

Smh